Diwatang Byaning

Figuratively it takes alot of strength to let go…

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Sometimes we close our eyes and just listen to the echoes of our hearts. We all fall in love and there are times when we love so much that we lose ourselves in our emotions. More often than not, we wonder why there are love that grows, and love that grows cold. We would start to search for answers and try to find where love has gone wrong. But in the end, we find ourselves where we started for we cannot question love when it has its own reasons. Love will always be as it always has been….silent, mysterious and deeply profound.

Many of us believe that love is forever, that love never dies, only to be disillusioned in the end when we find our hands empty and our hearts longing. We mistakenly have looked at love as a need to be fulfilled. But love is a gift given to us.Love is a gift given to us. We should not hold it in our hands for we may never find the strength to let it go, when it decides to leave.

We should only embrace its warmth and glow while it lasts and then freely open our arms when its time to say good-bye.

When we fall in love, we don’t want that feeling to end for it is everything we are, everything we wanted to be. We pray that love will stay and grow in our hearts. But if it doesn’t then we should never let our lives be taken by it, for life should not end where heartaches begin.

There is always a reason why we have to move on. When we have to say good-bye to the feeling we wanted to stay forever, let us not wave our hands with a heavy heart. For love will have to set its wings free and find the place where it belongs. We may have lost it but then again, when we close our eyes and listen to the echoes of our hearts, we will hear that feeling resounding silently forever.

Then we’ll know that love never left us, for the good that we have become because of love will always stay. Love will always be there, reminding us that we should be thankful and happy not because we have lost love, but because, for once in our lives, that feeling called love lived in our hearts and made us happy.

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Breaking up is never fun. It is true that the end of a relationship is the beginning of mourning and HEALING… It is true that mending a broken heart will not happen overnight…

It’s been quite sometime since I haven’t said anything, I think it’s not going to hurt just to say a
word or two - For the first time I am breaking my silence, since am also about to close this chapter of my life (just about time!).

Just for clarification…

It is not true that am moving or “running away” to the Midwest because of someone. I am not running away from someone, I am moving because I have to! I have been waiting for this chance and now it’s here, am I just going to let it pass?

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Some things that are good to consider about letting go. When you let go of your past, of things you can not change and learn how to set things up to make you happy, you will start feeling more relief, more happiness and more joy in your life.

o Letting go does not mean you do not care, it means that you can not live your life for others.
o Letting go does not mean to isolate yourself from other, rather to understand that you can not control others, only yourself.
o Letting go is not to carry others through life, rather let them learn from their own experiences.
o Letting go is to accept things, the end result is not always under my to control.
o Letting go Is not to be responsible for others, but to care for them.
o Letting go is not to change others or blame them, rather take full responsibility for creating the life I want.
o Letting go that it is not about “fixing” it is about being motivating and supportive.
o Letting go is not to judge others, but to let them be the way they are.
o Letting go is not being overly busy controlling and being in charge, rather let others be in charge of what they want and leading their life.
o Letting go is not to be in denial, rather accept.
o Letting go is not to argue, yell at other or blame, rather look for your own mistakes and fix them if needed.
o Letting go is not to make everything the way I think I need to have it, rather take each day and enjoy it.
o Letting go is not to organize or criticize others, rather become what you dream about becoming.
o Letting go is not to roll around in the past and let it control you, rather enjoy the moment, look forward to the future and what you can do there.
o Letting go is to fear less and allow experiences in your life.
o Letting go is to fear less and enjoy life more
o Letting go is to fear less and love more.

“Don’t be afraid your life will end; be afraid that it will never begin.”
- Grace Hansen

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