Dear Heart…
I am back for another moment of truth trulili eklaboo eklachuchu.
To the letter senders [Heart’s a little bit confused right now…]There is nothing wrong in loving someone. (May you be a lesbian fallen in love with a straight girl or vise versa. - Yong iba nga jan sa kabayo pa naebeg eh - ARAY KO!) I have encountered of lesbian or gay relationships that have lasted for years and years. (Marlton/Secane/19th and Lombard sts./Media people hello!!! May napapel, how about yong taga Voorhees daw? Ah ganun? Forget about shim/sherm… HAHAHA) Nice people and beautiful stories that go beyond the limits of what society considers normal. (Ehem, Monay anything you want to add?)
Your friend (straight girl) might like/love you but still claims herself straight right now, she maybe having inner struggles with this issue. (If she’s a lesbian too or just simply Bi as in Bi-lingual hahaha.) I know the feeling, it’s really scary, pero gagah ka kasi, yan ang pinili mong tahakin no? Kiri-Bella-Landipa ka din no!
But, you know what? LOVE is amazing, it’s like it has a power of it’s own. It such a beautiful and funny thing at the same time indeed, kasi hindi mo talaga alam sinong mamahalin mo at magmamahal sayo no. (Diba nakakaloka?) Hmmm a very good example is kagaya nga nyang kaibigan mo, diba she claims na straight nga “daw” sya pero mahal ka nya? Diba yan ang sabi nya? [Wag kang matakot, at sana naman sa susunod wag mo nang bastedin. LOLS!] Lakas mo din mag-feeling eh. Ikaw pa natakot. Ganda mo din kasi eh baruka ka, haba ng hair mo sa ilong, abot hanggang dito sa Mendiola at US embassy nakiki-rally! TSE!
I have always believed that no one is in a position to judge people like you and your “straight friend daw” in your quest for what others justify as normal relationships. The love that you/she feels for cannot be mistaken for anything else because it is the same kind of affection that any of us would feel for the opposite. (It’s the same intensity/passion eklachuchu) - This one goes out to all the girl/boy/bakla/tomboy/lalake/babae at balake that is having the same dilemma.
Sorry at ngayon lang ako nakasagot sa ating Dear Heart letter senders… Hmmm I am so darn confused up till now. Sino nga ba ang nagpadala ng sulat na ito? Si Tuliro nga ba o si Diwata?
A message for Tuliro - Baruka ka, lahat na lang sinulatan mo!!! Si Malen kelan mo susulatan? Aber? Ayuf, Tuliro ka talaga hahaha…
And for Diwata, wala akong tiwala sa kauri mo barukangbyaning! LOLS! [Huwag kang matakot, sagutin mo na!!!] or should I say pakipot? Well, you go girl - You have all the right na magpakipot, Asiana ka pa din no!
Mayroon ba kayong gustong idagdag mga ka-Ovarrio? O reklamo o kahit suhestiyon? [Oh well kung reklamo, doon ka sa baranGHEY nyo, hindi dito, wrong number ka iha. Or better, kay TULFO ka sumanguni!]
Tell it to my heart! (ARAY KO!)
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August 11th, 2008 at 12:16 pm
I gots a txt msg from “someone” in reference to this issue… *Can you please hand me the cellphone Minh?* Thanks! By the way Minh is one of my research elves…
Reads txt message out loud…
I don’t how long you could keep me, I am not begging you to keep holding on either… But just allow me to be your fried… “Until the crabs learn to fly..”
-Crabs learn to fly? When and How? Can you just be whisper with wings? With dry weave pa!!! Actually gherl hindi ko maarok an lalim… LOLS! Really…
August 11th, 2008 at 2:19 pm
Gurl, gusto ka daw nyang maging BFF … until crabs learn to fly … hanggang walang hanggan yon. Anovey!?! Pa-senti-senti pa with a dash of profoundness. Charot lang yan. Unless you’re talking about a different kind of crabs, like ewww … Bwa ha ha ha …
Pero here’s my thought, since you asked. Relationships, whether gay or straight, is something you work on in order to last long. There’s a lot of give and take and compromising and acceptance that happens. Sa simula lang yang lovey-dovey, PDA-filled times. After a while, you start seeing each other’s faults and things that you don’t like with each other. But you compromise on these things or otherwise, maghihiwalay kayo due to irreconcilable differences dahil you will start resenting each other and lalaki ng lalaki ang gap nyo unless you talk it out and learn to accept each other the way you are. At saka, it’s OK to look at other people other that your partner/spouse as long as you know the boundaries in your relationship. It’s human nature to be attracted to other people. Tsaka kung puro adobo araw-araw, magsasawa ka rin noh. Again, communication is key. But being idealistic will not make your relationship last longer.
In the case of your letter sender, kung “straight” daw yung gusto nya, eh tumigil na sha sa kahibangan nya noh. If the other party has a lot of issues especially if the environment is a factor (in other words, mas papakinggan nya ang sasabihin ng ibang tao), better run away. It will only work if both of you are willing to make it work and you don’t care about what other people would say. Of course, depende din sa geographic location mo dahil if you are living in a non-permissive place (like Middle East), eh extra difficult yan. Ipatahi na lang nya at mag-mongha na lang kaya sha. Anovey!?! Para naman akong Dear Ate Helen dito ha. Ganyan talaga pag bored na ka na sa office. At least mukha akong working-to-death sa kaka-type. (Hoy!!! Hindi ko blog to noh. Ayan, inunahan na kita. Bwe he he he …)
August 11th, 2008 at 2:58 pm
In the case of your letter sender, kung “straight” daw yung gusto nya, eh tumigil na sha sa kahibangan nya noh. If the other party has a lot of issues especially if the environment is a factor (in other words, mas papakinggan nya ang sasabihin ng ibang tao), better run away. It will only work if both of you are willing to make it work and you don’t care about what other people would say. Of course, depende din sa geographic location mo dahil if you are living in a non-permissive place (like Middle East), eh extra difficult yan. Ipatahi na lang nya at mag-mongha na lang kaya sha. Anovey!?! Para naman akong Dear Ate Helen dito ha. Ganyan talaga pag bored na ka na sa office. At least mukha akong working-to-death sa kaka-type. (Hoy!!! Hindi ko blog to noh. Ayan, inunahan na kita. Bwe he he he …)
- Teng it’s the other way around si Straight ang may pagnanasa doon sa non-straight person as in haba ng buhok ng ate mo hanggang Mexico “nag-cruise” tapos nag punta ng Alaska tapos nag cruise pabalik sa Caribbean! HAHAHA…
August 11th, 2008 at 2:59 pm
Gawin kitang co author? Bwehehehe…
August 11th, 2008 at 3:21 pm
Wag na gherl. Maligaya na ang lola mo sa pagko-comment. So kung si straight ang may gusto kay non-straight, same thing applies. Kung willing shang i-work out ang relationship even with the possibility of exposure, go lalush na. Now na!
Ang tanong, gusto ba sha ni non-straight? A relationship goes both ways dahil kung one-sided yan, it will never work. One more thing, long distance ba yan? Sori, ghel, pero I have never believed in long distance relationships. It simply does not work out. Pahihirapan nyo lang ang isa’t isa. Maski ako, if ever I will have to relocate, either he moves with me or we break up. Can I move to Montreal (wishing … wishing …)?
August 11th, 2008 at 3:30 pm
Ang tanong, gusto ba sha ni non-straight?Nagmamaganda ang baruka lol A relationship goes both ways dahil kung one-sided yan, it will never work. One more thing, long distance ba yan? Sori, ghel, pero I have never believed in long distance relationships. It simply does not work out. Pahihirapan nyo lang ang isa’t isa. Maski ako, if ever I will have to relocate, either he moves with me or we break up. Can I move to Montreal (wishing … wishing …)?
August 11th, 2008 at 3:34 pm
Move sa Canada with Jean-Phillip? lols
August 11th, 2008 at 3:35 pm
Iyan ang ibinulong ng aking research elf na si Hyunghye lols, pati mga duwindi ko asiana lol
August 11th, 2008 at 3:44 pm
Mahal ko sha !!! As if he even knows I exist noh. Feeling ko kasi may connection kami. Charot !!! Malaki kasi yung tip kaya bighani sha with the matching winky-winky. Tsaka mahal ko din si Bud. Paano naman yon? Parang kailangan ko na atang sumulat kay Dear Heart, Dear Ate Chuva at Dear Reyna Elena. Abangan!
August 11th, 2008 at 3:47 pm
Mahal ko sha !!! As if he even knows I exist noh. Feeling ko kasi may connection kami. Charot !!! Malaki kasi yung tip kaya bighani sha with the matching winky-winky. Tsaka mahal ko din si Bud. Hmmm… Charot lang mamaya i-post ko ang keyk na mala pang wedding wa lake lols Paano naman yon? Parang kailangan ko na atang sumulat kay Dear Heart, Dear Ate Chuva at Dear Reyna Elena. Abangan! Istatue Tuliro? - sumulat ka na din kay Ate Malen as in aka Chuvaness sa mynoseblee.com bwehehehehe
August 11th, 2008 at 4:05 pm
Kung may countess ako panalo ka na sa dami mong cowments heheheh…